Nodding my head here and there down the day, I was wondering that is it a pause, that I am living these days or it’s just the track of my life. Well when I was able to configure it, the conclusion was that it is a pause…. but an unexpected one that life takes when it had too, just to bring some of the hard things around, to a little softer version & and to smoothen your tracks.

A journey without a pause is like a Para without comas and full stop, which sometimes might change the meanings around. Thus no matter how long or short a journey is…. a pause is always required. The significance of pauses should always be kept in mind, otherwise blunders could be met everywhere. Well when it comes to life then the these pauses seems to grab much significant values, as it work as a point of peace or resting point for our distressed mind and soul.

Well at certain points you might think that, these hasty thoughts regarding pauses and stops might be some crazy grabby idea that struck to my mind and I just pissed it over my blog. But if u just push the idea, of such pauses to your life from time to time you might save your life from being pissed off by some uncertainty.

Now by talking about myself I would say……. My boat of Life is just going to begin its crucial sail. As my career and whole future depends on the turn I would be taking, as it’s the time for me to choose what so ever is best for me. Thus life here gives me a pause to think off and choose for the best way out. Thus nodding my head here and there I must take full advantage of my pauses to explain myself the tracks that I have covered down the journey and verify my gestures, my acts to understand the motive of my journey. And then by deciding the goals of my life I should decide the pauses and the intervals of my future tracks.

Sometimes I feel like rushing for the passionate drive with a hunger to achieve series of achievements leaving the rest things behinds and sometime I feel like being calm and composed, counting to add myself in the good books, of my near and dear ones. And these pauses of life make me feel alive and act in certain ways, which my mind and soul feel me to be. Thus for me these pauses are must from time to time to bring me to life in this dead world around.

Generally life doesn’t gives us enough time and space for experimenting with new things, so people here, feel on repeating the same tracks with a hope of new results every time they turn in . But let me tell you this is just the limit of insanity shown by them. As in the words of  Albert Einstein insanity is defined as ” Insanity : doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” similarly many a time in life we repeat things and hope for a change to happen but nothing new occurs and we think what was my fault ? where was i wrong ? have i performed every thing in right proforma ? and don’t think of experimenting.  So i guess this is the silliest mistake that i keep on repeating. So this might be one of the reason for failure as ‘change is the law of nature ‘  so we must keep on changing things, tracks, pattern, behavior, style & proforma in order to experiment for a new result, a new output.

So moving to a much practical approach every time we must experiment with new things to land up with a new result as change is the only truth and hope that we believe in for our up coming future. Just think of it , if our ancestors might have left experimenting what would be the present scenario, then certainly we might be living in the era of stone age or some thing like that. Thus feeling for change and experimenting new things will light up our future and future generation. As the experiments of today are the gifts for tomorrow.

we must experiment new things fearlessly, without the fear of losing, or worse to happen. Because  as per my view the worse thing occur when we stop experimenting and slide our self to the corners for watching the scenario. And if think so that those corners would save you ,then let me tell you moving wind is never effected, only the dirt and dust lying on corners are removed when it blows. so keep of experimenting with a hope of new and keep on sharing your results with the future as this is the only way to be remembered otherwise in blowing wind a particle of dust has no existence. And wasting your life as a dust particle is just a bad idea which no one wants as every one has the hunger for recognition. So just experiment for a new thing and gift it to the future if you wish to last long in the memories of other…..

We generally form perceptions just by hearing or reading the reviews of other and judge the things on that dam conclusion. The same thing happened with me, where I had form some views, after reading news paper articles about a movie named “dirty picture”, that the movie is a crap, which is being packaged with bold stunts of Vidiya Balan, with a story line of a B grade dancer cum actress of south. And after seeing the promos and song “Ooh la la ” the negative perception about the movie was reinforced. And as per the critics assumptions were made that this movie would march the theaters with Rating (A) and their reviews state that the movie was hype due to its story and the bold scenes that where being promoted. The story is a real life story of a south Indian actress “silk smitha”, who used sex as a strategy to shoot up her career graph and then finally she ends her life in mysterious circumstances.
So after all this I decided not watch this movie but due to our curiosity or you can say human tendency to peep into other’s life, turned me in to watch the movie, a movie which was meant to show me a real life story. Well after watching the movie I was made to change my perception about the actress and her acting. The way she acted in the movie was really an appreciable job, though she posed some bold scenes but they weren’t vulgar at all, however her acting gave full justice to the character she was playing. Well the script was dam good as it poses a complete mix, covering all the aspects of industry, whether it talks about the struggle, success, hunger, passion, dream, love, lust or tragedy the story is blessed with everything and with every course of action. The script and the dialogs of the movie were also fabulous. And the narration of the movie in the voice of Imran kept the story aliened to the viewers. The USP of the movie was the character of silk, posing fearless women with no hesitation no societal boundations. After seeing the movie I would rather say it was worth watching this movie.
Well this is just an example, that I have quoted here from an incident,that how we form our perceptions, just by taking an overview of things from others point of view, without being exposed to the things in actual.That is we just rule out things, on reviews of others without going for checking its authenticity.But this is something practically incorrect that shouldn’t be practiced. We should rather avoid this wage way of ruling out things and forming perceptions. And try to give at least one chance to a thing before commenting on it that’s all….

Today while reading an article on women situation in India these two questions arose in my mind and I was able to get a close picture about women’s situation in our society i.e. battling for basics in the society. No doubt our society is now pressing hard to make this generation and upcoming generation women’s financially independent and self identity, by educating them, by giving special legal rights, by providing reservations and through various other means, but still something is bounding them, some social barriers lie in their way. Why do the social norms keep them down even if a woman is financially independent?

Or is it our society has put a mask on its face, to show the world, that they are working for women’s upliftment, empowerment with the slogan of ‘providing equal rights’, ‘parallel place’ in society. But still their liberty and integrity is being hunted for an era in the society. Now what are those reasons which had compelled our society to behave in such creepy manner, where a section of society comprising of half the population is being dominated by the other half? And still with modern views and believes we are unable to break that curse. Well these are some freaking questions which arise in the minds of many of us from time to time but answers are still not configured.

Now if we talk about the ancient civilizations like Indus valley civilizations or Vedic society, the matriarchy was in practice, in which females, especially mothers, have the central roles. Of the three major streams of Hindu beliefs i.e. vaishanavism, shavism, and shaktism; Shaktism believes female as the source of power an prosperity. People worship the goddess Durga as supreme power which shows their belief & respects for the women. This shows our inherent belief in recognizing the role and importance of women in our lives. But the question arises as what has dragged us down?

The answer to the question can be found somewhere in the medieval history where numerous changes came in our social and cultural practices. The series of Islamic invasions posed a threat to the security of women in our society which lead us to form a protectionist approach towards our family (especially women). Further the establishment of Mughal Empire in our country worsened the situation. Their culture didn’t have any respect for the women rather they considered them as a source of luxury. The practices of ‘Haram’ and polygamy played a crucial role in making the women much more unsecured. Thus the common man prevented their women from visiting outside, going to schools and participating in public ceremonies. These practices further lead to the practice of ‘Purdah-system’ in Hindus as well. This made our women dependent and uneducated which lead them to lose their identity. The continuation of those practices for hundreds of years had molded our behavior and restricted our vision.

The modern history experienced the colonial rule and era of slave trading. They brought more inhuman practices in the society than any time before. The British also did nothing for the upliftment of women. This has much worsened situation and lead to the origin of social barrier and social boundaries for women in the society. But after independence our government is trying hard to change the scenario and vision but is still it is unable to break that curse and is unable to pull women out. They have provided women with n number of legal rights but didn’t make them aware of the right usage of those rights. The government believes that providing rights would uplift the women of our society but actually this has resulted much worsen the situation as if we can see many live examples from our society where these right s are misused and had resulted into serious consequences. These rights which were initially drafted to safeguard their rights and to remove women exploitation, but with the time there is an increment in misuse of this rights by some mischievous women of our society. Thus the rights are not exercised in the right way.

We should rather find right ways to uplift this section of society which comprises half the population so as to create a balance in our society we should try to eliminate these social barriers and make the women of our society financially independent. And bring their battle for basic rights to an end with some positive results…….

This was the crazy thought which was bubbling in my brain, down the day, while I was doing something, and at a stage I felt like I am having no option it seems to look like the dead end for that work, then while discussing the problem with a friend of mine I was suggested another way out for the same thing. I was finally relieved and was highly motivated, against the negative view that I initially formed “that dead end leaves no solution.”

It happens with many of us when we get struck in certain situations and we find no way out, to move on, no door to knock in, at that point we generally lose our hopes and end the game their only. But if we get a help or suggestion or are able to find another way out, then we are lucky enough to complete that dam thing, which we mean to be.

Thus I was able to figure out that that it is nothing like dead ends, all dead ends we form, we believe to be, are our own fictitious assumption, which we frame to hide our inefficiency at work, if we try, if we discuss, we could definitely find a way. Because no question is without a solution and no destination is without a way, all you need to do is find, hunt, and chase in order to achieve them…. So don’t frame fictitious boundaries and negative views when you find a situation with no solution.

We are in bound with a lot of things and a hell lot of commitment. And the reason for all this is, being social is it…. Well to my case, I would say yes, since majority of the time it happened with me, may be you go for ‘No’….. It may be a matter of series of coincidence or may be the truth. But after all this I have learned that the only person blamed or appreciated for the thing is you, as you are the decision taker. Another thing is that as we all know that it’s impossible to fulfill each and everyone’s wish so it’s better  to annoy some nearby if you think you are right……… well when I know all of this, then why do I feel bad when someone is annoyed on mine step. Why I am being impatient on such deeds of mine… why at dark hours I use to hunt down those questions of mine. Why do I feel like a confused guy, one who regrets on his decision but then at another instance of time my ego pull me up by saying that ‘you can’t regret for the thing, the one you did was very correct’ well at that time I don’t know that I am razing my head in the clouds of myth or truth…. but I feel like pressurized I feel like bounded……

Dogging reality with an unreal faces is a pretty common thing these days. Well all of us don’t like being dogged with an unreal face but technically speaking many of us are in the habit of dogging others with such unreal faces we try to fix a virtual image of an unreal personality over our true personality to impress others. But as our mind doesn’t find it incorrect we claim to be right but actually we aren’t.People in general try to manipulate other influencing people by there moderate talks and fake faces in order to earn name. well every one of us want to create a positive image and gain space in others mind.
Well truth can’t be altered in any circumstances, it can only be hided under the layer of unreal framed ones.It is the question of our belief that is what we assume the situations or how we take things up. How we promote it to our mind because at the end of the day what last is the impression that is being created by our mind as our souls impression.My question still remains at the same point, that can these shades over the frames are able of changing impression of mind.

Everything depends upon your seriousness towards your determination.If you took a firm one success will be definitely meeting you some way in the mid of your journey as i believe. The power to our passion comes only from firm determination. we intend to do lot of things but never succeeded in getting them out only because we go with the believes of few that this is practically impossible, how will you do it, are you insane you wanna do this, and let our moral down somewhere and generally drop the idea of performing. This is what shows our week determination so easily shaken by the believes of others.That is why i use to say ‘tell only when its all done’ so that no one could intact your ideas till the are live to them.
Now the question arises what is the problem that we cant take a firm front? or what issues counter us while implementing our passion when we are exposed to few believes of our near and dear ones.Is hearing the views of our near and dear ones at verge of achieving your passion is practically incorrect or it saves us from the greater loss. well in my view we should not cater the thought of loss in our mind generated by our near and dear ones rather think of success only no matter what the result is because some downs might let you down today but they will definitely lead you up way some day for your success.That is why i believe no matter how few believes your ideology or your way of doing things just take a firm stand of determination and you will be on the top of the hill someday in the near future.