Crazy Thoughts

Well I have configured all those who say that they hate stress but who perform only and only when stress is on to them, well they actually hate to work. Actually all of them don’t want to break the shells of their comfort zones and work regularly. With time all of us have shrunk our comfort zone to such an extent that when it breaks we fell like stressed. Is this so with you, then need to worry? We need to stretch our comfort zone in order to learn thing better, in order to increase our confidence in order to become much compatible to every situations.

Many a times I have noticed myself that I perform, when I am under stress. This is not only the case with me but many of us fall in the same category. For instance, being a student I would first talk about students, well I have noticed majority of us, start our studies at the last month or last week of the examination date. And we support thing by the reason when a month’s studies could fetch us almost 70% marks then why should we mug up things round the year to fetch 10% more. But the reason is that we have developed a tendency to work under stress. We submit our assignments on last dates when a warning is given. Does this show how much do we students love the stress…. Now if we talk about politicians we see them at our doors asking for votes, only a stress for getting votes increases. They work for the public upliftment only when they are stressed. Does this tendency show their inclination towards working in the horizon of stress? Yes this shows our politicians to love to work under stress….. If we talk about government sector employs, when we go to them for any work directly, and if they find that you don’t have any superior connections, at top level management then definitely they will make you wait, as they don’t want to break their comfort zone and work to get your job done. But on the other hand if you just, get a bell ring on their table from any of the top management reference and let them exposed to the stress of losing their jobs, they would get you that same works, in hours by putting it on top priority…. Now you can clearly see, what i mean to show you by quoting this instance, from day to day life. To show us that we work only we exposed to the thought of losing something which we posses, we empower, that we hold on.

In the end, all we can say that, all of us who love to work under stress just because of a treat behind makes blunder at times. The process of working under stress is not bad and if one is working under a stressed environment  then definitely he is increasing his potential at things and that shows a positive trait of his personality. But the tendency of working only and only under stressful environment is wrong, as this  leads to sever damage to our society and so to us. If we don’t realize it today then definitely, we would be facing some serious repercussions, some day in near future as it leads collateral damage. So we should rather change our tendency from loving to work “only and only under stress” to working under stress free environment.

Yes to some extend everything depends on perception, if you think or perceive anything right you will do right but if your perception is wrong you would be directed towards wrong direction. Now how we perceive things or this perception comes to our mind or how it is developed or what are the things which make us perceive things, that too in right direction. Well the answer is ‘intellectualness’ yes intellectualness helps us to develop right parameters of thinking which probably leads us to the right path. Do we know how intellectualness comes to the people? Well the answer is through ‘education’. As education brings clarity of thoughts so it increases the gaze of thinking to a much broader level. Thus it helps us to think in much better and broader view so it increases our level of perception. As it makes us move from one-dimensional thinking to multi-dimensional thinking because it opens up our directions of thoughts which make us march towards intellectuality.

Now If I just talk of my perception towards the government of India, that is what I perceive the problem with countries like ours is, we don’t have ample amount of intellectuals on top management body. Rather we have few intellectual at decision making positions and a majority of junk managers which push those intellectual to a paranoid state by affecting their thoughts with their narrow minded views which compels the decisions to mold into a one-dimensional approach from a multi-dimensional approach which hinders the growth of nation as a whole. And the solution to this problem that I believe is to march towards a state where everyone is intellectual or if not everyone than at least a major chunk is intellectual. And this is possible only and only when we educate everyone so that demands to increase the measures to educate our county men’s. As by educating them we increase their parameters of thinking on much better platform and on much broader gaze.

Now question raises if education is that much necessary then  does our government is putting enough efforts to encourage it, is the government spending enough percentage of our GDP on educating our country men’s and what are our efforts toward this. As all these questions needs to be bothered a lot. In my perception this is not only the case with our country it prevails in the rest other counties of the world too. We think transparent system, bringing an ombudsman like Jan lokpal  or political transparency would change things around but believe me. It wouldn’t work if we don’t perceive things in right way and right direction so I believe everything depends on perception.

Why we always float in the world of dilemma, while opting? Why we are stuck between the questions of should I or should I not? Why we are not able to make quick decisions? What is all this distraction for? Or why we let things to distract us? Why can’t we just do the thing when it hits our mind? Why we go between the thin line of pros and corns? Why can’t we just perform without caring for the result? What is that inner line which bounds us? At times we say that my mind is saying this and my heart is saying that, what is that situation?
Well the answer to this question is our inner conscious, inner soul, which bounds us while taking decision. When our inner conscious doesn’t feel confident enough on our option, then it creates such circumstances of should I or should I not by drawing a thin line, by putting all the options, with their expected results. Thus our inner soul acts as a visionary and tries to analyze the futuristic result of every option around. This analysis of futuristic result is not wrong, but when it goes on excess it reduces our confidence and let us into the situation of should I or should I not, well this is my view don’t know what you think of, but one thing that I am sure of is every one of us might has faced this situation of should I or should I not at any point of their life.
Well this dilemma of opting things must have touched us in any of the way; we must have delayed our decisions by question ourselves around. Well this process of analysis and rethinking on option is the way to develop wisdom and understanding. We must not hit an idea as it sticks to our mind without a passage of rethinking…..

Yes for the society what matters is how things end. Things go up and things go down during their life, but we remember only the way it ended, whether it’s good or bad, the end is always accepted and works as a tag for the ever lasting memories. Because when things hang up we hang up too……and when things perform well we perform too…. We have offen seen the deeds of persons is remembered on his ending, if he ends well, all will say he was so good, he did this, he did that….. But if he fails, only and only his failure is remembered, this is how the society works.
That’s why every one of us wants cool and smooth runs, so when we move things on, we have pleasant ending, because end matters a lot. We have offen heard a phrase “all well that ends well” from many of our friends and family when they say that, they too mean for a better ending from us. As we know no one wants the things to end worse; it’s always the situation to which we are bound off.
All of us try hard for the best but few of us succeed and as we all know that only and only success remains so we should go for the best out of best because what matters is how things end, you might not get the message out of the text when its conclusion, its end is destructed. So to be certain, to be sure, we must be precise to our goal, the way things move on, the way things been served, the way we conclude the ending, because time frame only remembers results and nothing else so it’s better to end well…………

The answer to this question which I configured is both. Sometimes we misunderstand some of our fellows or we hurt them unintentionally but they interpret them as a serious offense which results in punishing the person with a betrayal. Sometime the greed of earning, wining, gaining….money, power or any other desired objective leads to betrayal. No human being is perfect, so their greed could be a reason. This greed which is one of the Seven Deadly sins, is the most common reason for betrayal. But do we realize what those mistakes are? My answer is no, we don’t realize them. If we were much attentive on time, possibly this betrayal would have been avoided. We do mistakes in judging the people.
After all this, we let things go on, we don’t hunt down the reason behind, this is our mistake. If we sort down those reason today, we may save the future betrayals. This tendency of ours to let things go on as they were, leads us to the path of further betrayals and so on. But our analysis of the past cases, would at least check their frequency of occurrence. At last I want to conclude with the statement– “wherever there is a betrayal, there is a mistake.”

We are sometimes so busy in our world that we forget being social with others at time. We feel like we are all alone happy enough with our work but life is not so and we are unfortunately human beings, so at times when someone breaks that silence, it makes us feel good.
I don’t know why things happen so? Is this interval of distance and closeness necessary for a relation to sustain long? Is this pause really required? or we are doing some mistakes which we lead to end this intimacy. I offen question myself when I feel so but there is really no answers. Then I start thinking am I the only one or there are other ones like me around then my mind tell me yes there are other ones too so you need not to worry. But it is a worried thing I guess, and I know being unsocial is a crime that I am committing, but still I am unable to stop this behavior of mine.
When things happens like people starts questioning about my existence that am I still alive then I realize where I am, what should I change? What should I do to come out from this isolation? What could be the consequences? And lot many things that may result to this unsocial behavior. So this ping could be an awaking call or an alarm to get awakens. I felt the thing when I came across, may be you too experience the same but I believe we are fortunate enough to have some good friends around which will poke and ping to break that silence of ours and brings us alive.

My question to you is why we call life to be certainly uncertain. Why it is not stable at any instance of life why anything usual or unusual happens at times. This question remains unanswered & no one knows why it’s so. We always dream something but few of them come to real world why we are so helpless in overcoming all of them why life plays an uncertain role in making it real.

If you have the answer then pleases answer here so that we can change this uncertainty of life from our lives. This bitchiness trait of life at times comes with the hell lot of dam thing which hammers us in achieving our goal (the reason why we are here). At times it appears we are just the puppets being played on screen and whose strings are driven by some superficial element who drives our soul and life accordingly. This drives us into the zone of another question and further from this question to another questions but still all remains unanswered. And we are still on the hunt for the answers.

But we are helpless reckless, as we are out with no lead these questions. It’s like walking down the puzzled world with no way out. So this is what we call life……. Well I would say yes definitely it is that is why it is certainly uncertain. At last I have one more thing to ask….. Have we ever tried to configured what life owe us after all these shit things happens around or what we are paid with as a reward for all this…. My answer would be ‘death’ which is certainly certain in nature.

This is the most common thing which happens with almost everyone. We always call for the best interest of things but while managing too hard things mess up unconditionally in much worse state then we simply come up with the statement that may be god wants it so….. to cover it up, as it’s no way out to save our ass… we never had that intention but things turn up or rather we can say it’s our destiny that made it happened.
But still we are not satisfied at times and we move forward to clean our mess or rather you can say we intended to wipe down our shit and my god at times we start sinking into that shit of our own as we own a chain of worse situations at that time. But after sometime when we actually realize our blunders we have already sunk. And we feel that we can do nothing and we try to come out from the situation by tell our mind that this was the worst thing which could ever so happen in my life and nothing worse can happen now. So now I have to put my things together and sit down quietly until the fuck is blown away.
I believe at times things work when we sit down and watch down our mishaps to overcome them and blowing the whistle only and only when we are done with it and that too in the right way. But these things sounds hard when we actually starts to drive them out but as nothing is impossible so things are done rather but in some manipulative which certainly needs best configuration.