Crazy Thoughts

We are sometimes so busy in our world that we forget being social with others at time. We feel like we are all alone happy enough with our work but life is not so and we are unfortunately human beings, so at times when someone breaks that silence, it makes us feel good.
I don’t know why things happen so? Is this interval of distance and closeness necessary for a relation to sustain long? Is this pause really required? or we are doing some mistakes which we lead to end this intimacy. I offen question myself when I feel so but there is really no answers. Then I start thinking am I the only one or there are other ones like me around then my mind tell me yes there are other ones too so you need not to worry. But it is a worried thing I guess, and I know being unsocial is a crime that I am committing, but still I am unable to stop this behavior of mine.
When things happens like people starts questioning about my existence that am I still alive then I realize where I am, what should I change? What should I do to come out from this isolation? What could be the consequences? And lot many things that may result to this unsocial behavior. So this ping could be an awaking call or an alarm to get awakens. I felt the thing when I came across, may be you too experience the same but I believe we are fortunate enough to have some good friends around which will poke and ping to break that silence of ours and brings us alive.